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Living - Faith & Values

Saturday, Nov. 01, 2008

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Do pets go to heaven? It depends on your religion

Faithful pets might deserve heaven; some think they get in

- McClatchy Newspapers

KANSAS CITY, Mo. — Carolyn Sharp's beloved greyhound Starr was 4 years old when she was diagnosed with a deadly form of cancer.

Sharp decided the two of them would stay together as long as Starr was not suffering too much. The greyhound received radiation treatments and pain patches for several months until the veterinarian told Sharp it was time to end it.

  • Some ways to deal with the sorrow

    Coming to terms with the loss of a much-loved pet is never easy. The death of a pet can affect people in the same way that losing a family member or close friend would. Whether their death was sudden and unexpected or a decision made by owners after a long illness, the American Kennel Club offers the following suggestions to help ease your pain after the loss of a dog.

    ■ Grief should be expressed freely so the healing process can begin.

    ■ Make a conscious effort to be thankful for the joy your canine companion brought you through the years.

    ■ Spend time with people like other pet owners and your breeder, who can appreciate the effect your pet had on your life and can empathize with your loss.

    ■ Seek out pet bereavement groups through your local veterinarian, animal shelter or online. Your vet or local animal shelter might also be able to recommend a pet-loss hotline.

    ■ If this is your child's first experience with death, make it clear that the dog is not coming back, but emphasize that it is now free of pain. Let your child know it is OK for him or her to express grief over the loss of your dog.

    ■ Other pets in the house might also react to the loss of their companion. Give them extra attention during this time.

    ■ Realize it might take time before you are ready to bring a new dog into your home. If you feel you might not be ready for a new dog but want to spend time with animals, consider volunteering with a local kennel club, rescue group or animal shelter.

    ■ Discuss the idea of bringing a new dog home with your entire family. Whether or not you choose the same breed, be sure to appreciate your new canine companion for his own distinct personality and character traits.

    ■ Memorializing your dog can help you celebrate your pet's life and begin the healing process. A few tips: Consider a donation to a dog-related charity in honor of your dog; create a photo album with snapshots of your dog; write down some of your best memories in a journal; consider having a memorial service for your dog in an area that holds special meaning for you; disperse your dog's ashes in a favorite location or keep remains in a specially crafted urn with the dog's photo.

    Additional tips can be found on the American Kennel Club Web site at www.akc.org.

    McClatchy News Service

  • Do you believe pets go to heaven? Answer our poll. To find the new Faith & Values web page, go to our Web site, click on the "living" tab, then click on the "faith" tab.

  • Write a tribute to your deceased pet

    By popular request, the Herald-Leader will allow readers to submit tributes to pets who died in 2008. A selection of the submitted tributes will be printed in the Communities section and/or on our Web site on Dec. 31.

    Send a tribute — a brief biography, poem, or obituary — of no more than 260 words, along with a high-resolution photo of your pet, to Communities editor Risa Richardson at rrichardson@herald-leader.com by noon on Dec. 5. Entries must include the name of the pet and owners, and the home address and daytime phone number of the owners.

    Entries that are not e-mailed, do not include the required information, include more than 260 words or are not received by the deadline will not be considered for publication.

  • GRIEF RESOURCES FOR KIDS

    When a Pet Dies by Fred Rogers

    Dog Heaven and Cat Heaven, both by Cynthia Rylant

    The Tenth Good Thing About Barney by Judith Viorst

    SUPPORT GROUPS/HOTLINES

    Many veterinary colleges offer phone support, including:

    University of Illinois, 1-877-394-2273

    Cornell University, (607) 253-3932

    Ohio State University, (614) 292-1823

    University of California, Davis, (916) 752-4200

    Other pet-bereavement hotlines include:

    Animal Medical Center, (212) 838-8100

    Pet Grief Support Helpline, (602) 995-5885 (calls are returned collect)

    The Grief Recovery Institute, 1-888-773-2683

    ONLINE SUPPORT:

    The Animal Love & Loss Network, www.alln.org, offers a comprehensive list of links as well as a weekly chat and message board.

    Also visit www.pawsoftheheart.com.

    Denise Flaim, Newsday

"When we went in for the last time, I held her in my arms for the comfort of both of us until she had left," said Sharp, who lives in Overland Park, Kan. "I have still not really made peace with losing her so young." Eight years later she still doesn't understand the "why." But she is certain she'll hold Starr again — in an afterlife.

"I believe I'll have three cats and a whole bunch of dogs waiting for me," Sharp said.

Is there an afterlife for animals? Or as a popular question puts it: "Do all dogs go to heaven?"

Jack Vinyardi of Kansas City, Mo., an ordained interfaith chaplain of pets, said he is asked that question all the time as he comforts people about to lose or who have lost a pet.

He tells them there is no faith that claims to know unquestionably what happens to animals when they die.

"It is my job to comfort," he said. "I believe we each can find answers to divine questions if we look deeply in our own hearts and ask for guidance there. Although our answers may differ from the answers others have found, they are our own, and they will comfort us.

"And there is only one religious truth I can confidently assert, that our relationships with our companion animals are both emotional and spiritual, so they never really end, wherever our bodies and souls go after death."

One writer, mourning the loss of his dog, said recently that there are no souls or a heaven and that the departed, including his dog, exist only in people's memories of them.

Sharp did not agree.

"If God knows the fate of a sparrow, what makes you think he wouldn't be concerned about our pets?" asked Patricia Cox of Prairie Village, Kan. "To some people they are our children. Who are you to say they do not have souls or a heaven to go to?"

We asked people of various religions how their faith answers the question of whether there is an afterlife for animals:

PROTESTANT

Thor Madsen, academic dean at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, acknowledged the desire of Christians to see their pets again. But, he concluded, "We really have no biblical grounds for an assurance that our pets will be resurrected along with us."

Some Christians think heaven would be lacking something essential to their happiness if their pets are not there with them, Madsen said.

"But the Scriptures imply that heaven's overwhelming treasure for us is the fellowship that we, the followers of Christ, will have with our Creator and Savior," he said. " ... Nothing will seem to be absent at that point."

CATHOLIC

Children, and even some adults, have asked the Rev. John Schmeidler of St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church in Lawrence, Kan., whether their pet had gone to heaven.

God's plans for animals regarding an afterlife are not fully known, he said. St. Thomas Aquinas wrote about animals having a soul, but it wasn't similar to that of humans, and St. Francis of Assisi saw animals as God's creatures to be honored and respected, said Schmeidler, a Capuchin Franciscan.

The Catholic Church traditionally teaches that animals do not go to heaven, he said.

"But a lot of people have a hard time with that, and I do, too, when I see a grieving pet owner. I know God wants us to be totally happy in heaven, and if our dog will help make us fully happy, and if God can resurrect us, I'm sure he could resurrect a dog, too."

MUSLIM

The Qur'an contains no direct references to an afterlife for animals, said Muslim scholar Abdalla Idris Ali. But there are indirect references.

One says that in paradise people will be given everything they have asked for, he said, "so indirectly, if they want their pets, they can have them with them."

Islam also teaches that God will be judge of people and animals, Ali said.

"For example, he will charge an animal that has horns who took advantage of one that didn't have horns, and that horned animal will be turned to dust after taking him to account for what the horned animal did," he said.

JEWISH

Rabbi Scott White of Congregation Ohev Sholom in Prairie Village, Mo., once saw a bumper sticker that read, "Lord, please help me to become as great a person as my dog thinks I am."

"Judaism teaches that God reserves a blessed existence in the world to come for the truly virtuous," White said. "It's only fitting that such an existence includes the pet that inspired the greatness.

"For myself, paradise with my own mutt (Rescue the Wonder Dog) is a perfect inducement to pursue virtue."

AMERICAN INDIAN

American Indians believe all creatures are interconnected, said Gary Langston of Kansas City, a Northern Cherokee.

"All living things are children of the Earth," he said. "It doesn't matter if we have feet or wings or roots.

"So, yes, there is an afterlife for animals. We all are going home, back to the Creator. And, yes, people will see their pets again. The dog I had as a kid, his spirit never left me; he just moved into a different dimension."

Langston said he believes that when he dies he will move into the dimension where his dog is, and they will be in the spirit form together.

The companionship, friendship and love that humans and their pets share in this life will continue to be shared in the afterlife, he said.

HINDU/VEDANTA

There is a story in the Hindu epic Mahabharata about Yudhisthira, the eldest and noblest of five Pandava brothers. When he made his final journey to heaven, his faithful dog Dhruba followed him there, said Anand Bhattacharyya, a member of the Kansas City area Hindu community.

"Yudhisthira was allowed to go to heaven, but not his dog," he said. "But he didn't want to enter heaven without his dog. On Yudhisthira's insistence both were allowed to enter heaven in eternal peace."

Still, the general Hindu belief is that animals have souls but no access to eternal life, Bhattacharyya said.

"Because of the soul's inherent urge to be united with its source (God), souls in animals will ultimately evolve to the human plane. Once the soul is in a human body, it is capable of union with God in eternal bliss. But it may take many more reincarnations in human form to liberate the soul from the death-rebirth cycle."

A similar view comes from Linda Prugh of the Vedanta Society, an organization based on a Hindu philosophy. She said animals have souls, but unlike humans they do not have the ability to reason and discriminate between right and wrong.

Animals go from birth to death to birth again and slowly evolve into higher forms, eventually reaching the human plane, she said.

The goal of life is to realize one's true divine nature, which is one with Brahman (all-pervading Godhead), and to see that divinity in every being and every thing, Prugh said.

"So our pets, whom we love and take care of, should be treated as manifestations of the divine," she said.

BUDDHIST

From the Buddhist perspective, "I don't know" about an afterlife for humans or animals, said Marnie Hammer of Mid America Dharma.

"The Buddha talked about being present now rather than spending a lot of time worrying about what's out there," she said.

Buddhism teaches that the animal realm is a lower realm of existence, Hammer said.

"I've had three cats that I've shared my life with and have made my life richer, but I don't know if I'll see them again," she said. "That's not the question."

The question, she said, is whether one is making life "more peaceful and generous for everyone."


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