'Stories We Tell': Introspective documentary has a story worth telling

McClatchy-Tribune News ServiceJuly 3, 2013 

Actress-director Sarah Polley turns the camera onto her family in the documentary Stories We Tell.



    'Stories We Tell'


    PG-13 for thematic elements involving sexuality, brief strong language and smoking. Roadside Attractions. 1:48. Kentucky.

Canadian actress-turned-director Sarah Polley engages in a bout of navel-gazing with her new documentary, Stories We Tell.

It's about her late mother, and she assembles her siblings and other relatives and family friends for "an interrogation," as they recollect their memories of her in building a sometimes-contradictory portrait of a woman who died when Polley was a child.

When a sister blurts out, "Who cares about our family?" she might be speaking for the audience. All these interviews, all these conflicting accounts, all this insistence that each speaker tell "the whole story" just so an actress can indulge herself in knowing the mother she never really knew?

But Polley is getting at something deeper, at who "owns" a story, at the impact of point of view, editing and biases. And as Stories We Tell gets deeper into this saga, the jaw-dropping revelations aren't just ours; they're Polley's. She didn't know this woman at all.

Her aged father, Michael, an actor, narrates from a long, writerly biography of Diane, a vivacious actress he met, married and worked with on the Canadian stage. As their family started, Michael had to give up the stage and go into insurance to support them, which seemed to frustrate him and his wife.

Others talk of the stoic and passive Michael and "good-time Charlie" Diane, a mismatched pair if ever there was one. As Michael promises to tell "the whole story," as another interviewee reminds Sarah (who pops up on camera, frequently) that "the function of art is to find the truth," and as Sarah herself finally discovers the connecting theme of her film — memory, and the way we organize it to tell the stories of our lives — Stories We Tell transcends navel-gazing and reaches something bigger and broader.

Polley uses old home movies, interviews and cleverly staged re-creations of home movies that blend seamlessly with the real thing to capture a dynamic portrait of her mom, whose bubbly personality hid a lot of personal demons.

She is blessed in having her father, often shot simply in a recording studio. And with each little revelation of family history — how close Sarah, the baby of the family, came to being aborted, for instance — the tale grows more complicated, more compelling and more complete.

It goes on too long, but this is personal essay filmmaking at its best, passing that ultimate test of such self-involved projects. It has a story worth telling.


'Stories We Tell'


PG-13 for thematic elements involving sexuality, brief strong language and smoking. Roadside Attractions. 1:48. Kentucky.

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