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Sexcetera: Wife catches hubby spying on young neighbor what should she do?
Q: I have an issue with my husband that I really don't know how to handle. First, let me say that he is in his 50s.Before we went out to dinner one night, I caught him staring out the window at my neighbor's daughter, who's in her 20s, while she and her boyfriend were sunbathing. He proceeded to masturbate in the bathroom. He didn't know I saw this. We went out to dinner with this on my mind. At one point during dinner, he told me that I am the most beautiful woman in the world. I just wanted to throw up after he said that. Do you think it is creepy for a man to masturbate over a 20-something woman when his daughters are practically the same age? How is a woman supposed to feel after experiencing something like this?
Poked: Big news should be shared personally, not on Facebook
Some news just shouldn't be seen first on Facebook.
Ask Mr. Dad: Take another little piece of my crib, now baby
Dear Mr. Dad: We just moved our 21/2-year-old daughter from a crib to a bed. She seemed excited about her new "big girl" bed at the store, but now that it's set up in her room, she refuses to sleep in it. What's going on, and what can we do?
Ex-Etiquette: Mother-in-the-middle wants out
Q: How can I get my ex to stop calling me? I maintained a congenial relationship for our son's sake, but my son is now 21. Dad was verbally and mentally abusive and I spent thousands on therapy for son, with limited success. I don't hate ex, but don't like him much and do not care to have contact. I told him so when he demanded info on son, who specifically asked me not to divulge info. Help, please!
The Parent Hood: Making a tough talk easier for both of you
What's the best time and place to have a serious, and possibly uncomfortable, discussion with your child?
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Go tech-free for 24 hours and say hello to loved ones
People, are you willing to give up your cell phone, laptop, e-readers, game players and all other mobile devices for one day on Yom Kippur?
Voices of Faith: Why do good things happen to bad people?
Voices of Faith: Why do good things happen to bad people?
Foreclosures' social consequences eyed





